Mom, dad, sister, brother, aunt, uncle or friend have been getting along just fine. An event occurs that inexorably begins yet another passage in their life. Maybe their beloved spouse, mate, or pet departs from this earth. Life is changed forevermore. You've been there, haven't you? Maybe their bodies are no longer the same. They feel pain. Pain untreated usually leads to depression. Maybe their physical condition traps them in their house, or bed, or mind. Being trapped usually leads to depression. Forget the scientific meaning of depression. Concentrate on the fact your loved one needs some help, some assistance. Breath deeply, gather your wits and do the right thing...start helping. Figure out, with them, how to make their life easier. It could be as simple as a weekly call or visit, a walker, a medical alert, a paid helper like an L.P.N., or an introduction to a quality community senior center. Keep in touch. Don't let depression or sadness rob the good part of their lives. Find a way to make a difference! Remember the good times...they're just one little helping hand away. Think about a medical alarm to help give you both peace of mind. | 
